What stands out is that I'm friendly,Open Minded approachable, and personable. I was shy when I was younger. A lot of it related at the time to not knowing and being secure with who I am. Some people may be taken aback by my friendly demeanor, but if you take time to know me I'm gentle and will give and enjoy good humor. On the other hand, I do discern and use common sense in knowing what's pretentious.I can laugh at myself, enjoy other people's humor, and share my own. But I won't cross the line with those who are truly vulnerable. And that comes from someone who can't stand being politically correct.