FEHTSAMA

35 - Straight

Washington, United States

Oct 30, 2018 21:02

--Discord: FehtSama#4771

Looking for: Serious relationship, but would like to start as friends, also roleplay friends in FFXIV!

Age: 29
Height: 5'11" (tallest of my brothers so maybe 6')
Build: Needs a little work around the middle but not fat/unhealthy
Personality: Cool/Distant, introverted/nerdy, or social and obsessive... still nerdy/dork, but normally only because of my interests/hobbies. I gotta be a little silly for my fans!
Occupation: Part-timer who also takes care of grandparents
Pets: Wants a cat, likes all pets on some level
Smoke?: Nope! Got off that nicotine train!
Drink?: Only ever at bars or when I want to be irresponsibly uncoordinated, no alcoholism
Music: xkito otherwise electronic/classic pieces, rock and other songs that give me goosebumps
Movies: Deadpool and Deadpool 2, ofc others but that'd be a long list

Games: Final Fantasy XIV (current main game), MHW (beat the heck outta it!), GW2 (the game that started it all), VRChat (bby modeler ;w; ), Dark Souls collection, Elite Dangerous, Hellblade (probably my favorite one and done game), NieR: Automata (Where the hell did this game come outta??), Dragon's Dogma, Ori and the Blind Forest, PUBG (and Fortenight but maaaaan, can't get into them, too many adhd kids playing), Witcher series (2&3 ), Okami (Amaterasu is my fav sun-pupper), etc, etc. I've played a lot of games, even more than my theoretical movie list, lol! Zelda and Metroid fan too, nintendo classics -- But these days PC gaming or nothin'! >


--About me(?):
I play FFXIV on a regular basis. I enjoy mmorpgs, especially ones with good and long stories. I'm an avid roleplayer who loves to make people happy with quirky or deep tales and characters that are more than one-dimensional. I used to write fiction as a hobby, but roleplay has been so much more interesting, I can't go back!

--I'm a roleplayer! Love it or leave it!
This might take up a bit of space as I'm pretty descriptive of my roleplay experiences. I repeat that I love the activity, because it's a center point of the kind of gamer I am. I like to think I'm a social gamer. I have enjoyed experiences I probably would never have had irl or at least not in the way I'd prefer to have them! I love roleplay and I love making people happy though great story-telling but there's only so many times that I 'fall in love' ICly that I don't get a little disappointed to find things probably wouldn't work out if I got to know them OOC. It'd be nice to have a relationship with someone in a setting I love that also has the capacity to bring it to the real world, I'd rather not be unfulfilled and I'm certain there's a girl out there who wants to have something to bring home outside the roleplay experience. Hopefully this platform helps me find the person I want in my life.

--Yes, I have family!
I'm fairly close-tied to family, so even if I mentioned a date, my family would immediately try to adopt you and make you feel apart of it. Hopefully that doesn't bother you, lol. I like keeping to myself most the time but I am not so introverted that I lose touch with everyone else around me.

--My ideal relationship (doesn't have to be this but it's close enough what I'm looking for)
If you're looking for someone who can shift their attention from 100% games to a bit more nesting and relationship building, I'm probably a good fit, however I'll be honest, I'm never going to fully give up my gaming habits, I'll make it work out, but don't expect me to be a fixer-upper. I love being me and I want someone who's comfortable in their own skin and doesn't mind mundane afternoons and occasional cuddle-time as well as 'me' time, time where neither of us need or want to be in each other's hair and just enjoy whatever personal hobbies we're into, be it games or some other activity (I'm not always about games, just fyi).

--Relationship Needs:
I'm fairly independent so I think I'd enjoy spending time with someone just as independent. If I wasn't convinced a relationship with someone would be a lot of fun, I'd probably not date but even in all my fantasy exploits, I still fall back on the regret that I'm not exactly finding the right girl because games don't really put yourself 'out there', so hopefully this site helps get my voice out there!

Low-stress is the name of the game (pun intended)
My significant other would be more than welcome to join me, join my friends on discord, or even drag me into her group of friends if she's got a well-established circle and thinks it'd be fun~! (ofc if that wasn't already a thing as friends ). But aside our hobbies, mine being obviously well deep into gaming and that culture, there's no obligation or pressure to change who we are, just so long as who we are-are are... this is confusing. If you don't mind a gamer for a bf/hubby then the rest is gravy like any other relationship!

--For the Record...
I want to be clear, I'd never be selfish if I were with the right person and they were treating me with respect. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out, we find a solution and don't sweat the small stuff, so long as we're both happy. However, I also don't want to lose 'myself' to some false idea that I have to reach certain milestones in order to have the 'successful life' everyone might've expected out of me at some point or another. I had that realization once before after years of trying to make a marriage work, and the moment, the exact moment I started to draw back and try to look for who I was as a person, that house of cards fell fast.

Fact is...
If it weren't for me being convinced a lover/wife would be good; someone who's into the things I'm into... then I'd probably be content with just friends and the relationships I have through my hobbies. But as stated above, no matter how close I get to feeling like things are good, not having a true relationship sucks and is a major piece of the puzzle I really really want. Just not at the loss of my identity and who I see myself as.

--TL: DR(..?)
I'm very relaxed and would be super excited to talk to like-minded people on discord, so don't hesitate, the tag is there for us to connect and nerd out and just have gaming/discord fun! I'll try to fit in some more quirks and funny stories and expand this page if my profile thing needs it ^^

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